Grief Breakthrough Coaching

Move Forward - Without Moving On

Ready to stop feeling detached and going through the motions... like you're observing your life instead of living it?

Jennifer has been a lifesaver for me over the past year. 

She has guided me through many challenges and helped me figure out real positive solutions. She is a great listener and huge help with knowledge in many areas. I always feel a huge relief after speaking with her!  

COURTENEY L.

Hi, I'm JEnniFer hacker.

Life Coach and Grief Specialist

If you're in early grief, FREE text message support may be a tremendous help.

You'll receive 1-3 text messages each week to let you know

  • you're not grieving wrong
  • you're not crazy 
  • you're not alone
  • you're going to be okay

Not sure? Check out a few samples in the archive.

It’s a common (but harmful) myth that moving forward means you're 'moving on'

Even though it's not true, healing feels like "moving on" and forgetting.

And since that's the last thing you want, moving forward and feeling better become things to be avoided.

Maybe you "avoid" by...

  • Working 24/7
  • Drinking a bottle of wine by yourself every night
  • Shopping for shoes you'll never wear
  • Exercising to the point of collapse
  • Staying in bed and sleeping all day

But all that avoiding can leave you...

  • Having no interest in anything
  • Not wanting to face the world
  • Not being able to do normal things in life
  • Not having any idea what to do with the rest of your life

You feel like you might be stuck in grief forever.

You wonder, "Is it normal to be in this much pain after 6 years?"

You've already done all the things...

I'm guessing you've already tried a lot of different ways to do your "grief work"
  • You read books (It's OK That You're Not OK, Bearing the Unbearable, On Grief and Grieving, and so many more)
  • You joined support groups (most were completely depressing)
  • You went to therapy (and figured out most therapists aren't equipped to handle grief)
  • You waited (for time to live up to the promise of the cliche and heal your wounds)
But none of these things "worked"...
You've done everything you can think of so WHY does it still hurt so bad?

Because grief and love are interconnected... the love doesn't go away so the grief doesn't either.

So the question then becomes... "What else is there to do?"

Jennifer gave me soooo many tools that I use on a daily basis, to be happy, and to help others.

I'm so thankful for Jennifer's guidance through all my life challenges. What a world of difference she's made in my life.

I am indebted to her forever !

– A.M.

Who am I to say you can move forward without moving on?

Hi, I'm Jennifer ...

When my infant son died in 2003, my world ended... but the rest of the world carried on as usual.

Over the course of many years I healed and learned how to be happy and fulfilled in life again. But getting there was a long, lonely road.

I want your road to be less long and less lonely.

After a 20+ year career in Finance/Accounting, I felt a calling to DO MORE to help women going through the hardest times in their lives and doing it alone.

I quit my corporate job to become a Certified Life Coach and Grief Specialist.

And now, my dream is to help you

  • do more than just survive
  • accept the ways you've needed to grieve... forget what other people think and expect
  • get unstuck and figure out what to do with the rest of your life (which, by the way, can be so much better than "good enough")

Even if you've been stuck for 5 or 8 or 10+ years, you CAN get unstuck and enjoy life again - i.e. laugh, sing, exercise, dance, work, and invest in people and relationships again.

You don't have to figure this out on your own.

 Get  theTransformations Newsletter  

for Tools to help you manage grief and Encouragement to help you believe there really is hope for peace and happiness again.  

You are amazing. I love how you have taken what you learned from losing your precious baby boy to help so many others. Thanks for changing the world, one person at a time. I can't express the depth of my appreciation and thankfulness I have for you as you have shared your life and compassion.❤❤❤

– J.J.

Free e-book
Do you silently wonder "Why did you do this to me God?" and wish there was a real, satisfying explanation (i.e. not platitudes or clichés)? 
Sign up below to receive a copy of this resource and learn 3 things that will finally answer your question and ease your path moving forward.
why god ebook signup (#10)

Why God? Why did you let this happen to me?
>